I want to discuss DL men and if you aren’t familiar with the term, it means down-low men (sexual slang). Men that are presenting to be heterosexual but are homosexual. I may get attacked for this but that’s okay, I know how to fight. I understand and have great compassion for the male gay community as I know the danger they put themselves in if they openly express themselves and identify as homosexual. However, my problem isn’t with gay men, it’s how certain straight men pursue women, get married and have children. It’s one thing to tell your girlfriend that you are into men and you guys do not share children and legal assets. To tell that to your WIFE with 2-3 children is what I like to call barbaric. I often here these men create excuses, lies, and cast shadows to hide from the truth. For a woman to walk down the aisle, family eyes are filled with happy tears and praise, flower girls, and $80,000 investment into the wedding… umm, yes that’s more than secondhand embarrassment. Baby, I like to call that a humiliation ritual.
Family, religion, and the community make it difficult for people to be honest with themselves. Gay men have come forward and let the general population know how they knew they were attracted to men. Everyone coming out story is different, its not one-size fits all. Some men knew they were attracted to men since they were 11 years old, out on the football field, at camp and finding guys on TV to be attractive.
Married women have come forward and stated how they knew their husband was DL, one woman stated “my husband kept having trouble getting up. I assumed he was no longer attracted to me. I found gay porn and gay lingo about being a top or bottom in his phone.” Another woman stated, “I found out my ex-husband had sex with his best friend who was the man in our wedding, sooner than later his own father exposed him as well as other family members.” I can only imagine the humiliation these women and many other women have felt, especially since women put men opinions on a pedestal.
Men who commit this treacherous community crime give other gay men a bad reputation. Other gay men have come out to speak their side of the story, wives blaming them for destroying their family but baby it wasn’t his fault nor is it his story to tell. I have gay male friends and they have educated me about the gay community and baby, not to be messy, the tea is boiling hot! I mentioned before I have no issues with gay men, its gay men cosplaying as straight. The real gay men who are loud and proud are done keeping dirty secrets for our “straight” brothers. I am too! They are victims in this because sometimes THEY don’t know the guy that they are dating has a wife and children. They found out the same time the wife found out, men are ice cold at keeping secrets!
I personally, do not date men from Atlanta and you all should know why. I am not attracted to bi-sexual men. When a guy tells me he’s from Atlanta, he will never here from me again. It’s that simple. I’ve meant some guys, and I got a gut feeling they were DL. Too much skincare products in the bathroom, too many children with different women, never make eye contact with women, and very into style/fashion. The list is longer but those are the top 4 women have experienced as a collective. I wear a purse, paint my nails, go to spas, and scroll the vogue app, I do not want a man I’m dating to do the same thing. It’s one thing to tell your man the importance of moisturizing his skin vs him taking it upon himself via skincare regimen before bed. I’m not being messy, just informative.
Something else I notice if a straight man crosses his legs too much, I start to wonder what’s between his legs. Chile…
I love when gay men tuck their invisible hair back behind their ears LOL! Also, I’ve been watching TS Madison and Flame Monroe for years, they too, have help me build my discovery case for dl men. Thank god for those ladies!
In the situations I listed above, has made women not trust men on top of men being players. Not only are men prone to cheat but DL too? Can we catch a break? I don’t know what’s scarier… men being DL or how many women come together to share the same experience. Where are the men that are attracted to woman? I’m not talking about physical attraction to women, let me be clear, the essence of being a woman. Respecting the company and protection around a woman. Sometimes a man hurts every woman that comes into his life because his soulmate is a man.
I was on a call yesterday with a newly friend of mine who has a 4 year old daughter, “Daddy do you like girls?” she said. He was puzzled, before he answered her, he picked up what she was putting down. For a while, he always answered “I like everyone” he was cautions with his words because he didn’t want her to repeat anything in school. His daughter asked again, “Yes, I like girls” he said finally. It took him a while to understand why his 4 year old is asking him what he likes? Why would that question be on a 4 year old mind? We agreed the gay agenda has changed. It once was about pushing corporate giants and machines to accept and hire gay people then it added another layer of respecting and accepting gay people as they are. Now, the gay agenda has been sexualized and ritualistic for viewers to see. It’s starting to bleed into the children we sworn to protect. It’s one thing for a teenager/adult to come out as gay, another thing when we as a society are forcing things down children that are not safe for them.
Please let children blossom into who they are meant to be. Do not robbed them of their innocence to benefit a moral war. Something sinister is occurring, we use to call babies, babies, now we call them tablet babies. Children are being exposed to technology too soon when they need to be outside playing and using their imagination. Our government is trying to rob our children imagination, infest them with adult private affairs, gender affirming butchers, and trans-pushing.
Let me know how you guys feel, I welcome all comments and opinions, keep it cute, we are adults and we can have a civil debate. Thank you in advance. In the meantime ladies, trust your intuition especially when you’re in the beginning stages of getting to know someone. We don’t judge our friends but we should judge strangers because first impressions are key.
The DL men may throw tomatoes but ketchup is good.
I also dislike DL men, not because they are secretly gay (their sexuality is there business). My gripe is the fact of instead of living in their truth they’re cowards who hide behind women using them as a shield. Playing with their emotions. Gay or not when you’re sexual with someone you should always be honest about you’re other current sexual endeavors. Gay, straight, bisexual or lesbian. I do have to disagree about the public trying to “poison children minds”. Why is a same sex relationship on tv any more poisonous than a straight relationship. I don’t feel like a gay agenda is being pushed, i feel like gay people no longer feel a need to hide anymore and people aren’t used to them being unapologetically gay. Kids will be kids. A 3 year old will hug another 3 year old and think nothing of it. Kids will kiss each other (probably cause that’s what they’ve seen) and think absolutely nothing of it. It’s that adults that assign meaning to it for them. “Oh that’s his girlfriend” “he’s gonna be a heart breaker” “she’s gonna have all the boys wrapped around her finger”. But you can’t be mad at what your children indulges in when you’re giving them unsupervised access to the internet. Gay people have always existed and they always will.
All I know is that dudes who have over the top masculine traits look like posers to me. Like who the fuck are you trying to impress? Would I be judged for crossing my legs while watching football? Because I've done that many times. (or maybe this is just in Atlanta?) LOL. All I'm saying is that you don't have to act like a cliche and still like pussy....or maybe I missed the point...it's happened before.
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